{"id":4090,"date":"2015-01-04T19:38:12","date_gmt":"2015-01-05T00:38:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/?p=4090"},"modified":"2017-03-17T10:58:46","modified_gmt":"2017-03-17T14:58:46","slug":"5-parenting-intentions-for-2015","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/5-parenting-intentions-for-2015\/","title":{"rendered":"5 parenting intentions to set in 2015 by The Nest Miami"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"munch-before-content munch-entity-placement\" style=\"text-align: center;margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 40px;display: block;float: none;\" id=\"munch-21593933\"><div id=\"munch-3166659002\"><a data-no-instant=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thechildrenstrust.org\/calendar\/family-expo\/\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"a2t-link\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"Expo &#8217;26 728&#215;90\"><img src=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/07\/Expo-26-728x90-1.gif\" alt=\"\"  width=\"728\" height=\"90\"  style=\" max-width: 100%; height: auto;\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4187\" src=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/nest1.jpg\" alt=\"nest\" width=\"400\" height=\"118\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/nest1-300x88.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/nest1.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><em>By Lina Acosta Sandaal, MA \u2013 owner\/founder of <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/n3stm1am1.leadpages.net\/nestparentsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Nest<\/em><\/a><em>,<\/em><em> a parenting center founded on the idea that with the right information parents always make the right choices for their children. <a href=\"http:\/\/n3stm1am1.leadpages.net\/nestparentsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to get more info about their services<\/a> or call 305-392-0788. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-4098\" src=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/sponsored-e1420418365227.png\" alt=\"sponsored-e1420418365227\" width=\"155\" height=\"30\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/sponsored-e1420418365227-150x30.png 150w, https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/sponsored-e1420418365227.png 155w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 155px) 100vw, 155px\" \/><\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-overflow:visible;--awb-margin-top:10px;--awb-margin-bottom:20px;--awb-background-color:rgba(255,255,255,0);--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e0dede;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #ed106c;\"><strong>intention:\u00a0in\u02c8ten(t)SH(\u0259)n\/\u00a0(noun) an aim or plan (Websters, 2005)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>We are all thinking about the New Year and new ways of being. \u00a0Here are 5 quick steps to a happy, healthy &amp; successful 2015 with your children.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Understand your past and how it affects your present<\/strong>. Attachment theorists have shown that the greatest predictor of how a child will develop is how their parents make sense of their own lives. Process how your past affects you and your children will benefit.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stop comparing<\/strong>.\u00a0Comparison is an automatic response to make sense of our world. Our brains make lists and logic maps about our everyday choices and our children place us on overdrive when it comes to making lists and \u201cgetting it right.\u201d The next time you compare yourself to\u00a0another parent, give yourself (and the other parent) a break.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask for forgiveness<\/strong>.\u00a0The greatest gift you can give your child is setting an example of how to handle a &#8220;negative&#8221; emotion. Apologize the next time you do something you regret.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll show him how to apologize, remind him that you respect him enough to apologize for your behavior and teach him empathy and compassion.<\/li>\n<li><strong>State and keep clear and concise rules<\/strong>. We often speak with complicated messages that confuse children. Avoid yes or no questions for kids under 7. Try &#8220;It&#8217;s time to pick up your toys&#8221; instead of &#8220;Can you please pick up your toys?&#8221; to avoid getting a &#8220;No.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Maintain a routine<\/strong>. Kids understand time and feel safe when they can predict what comes next. Set up and stick to a routine and your whole family will be happier.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Here&#8217;s to a successful 2015! \u00a0Hope to see you this upcoming year at our <a href=\"http:\/\/n3stm1am1.leadpages.net\/nestparentsonline\/\" target=\"_blank\">Nest<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-4118 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/HVY_1569-copy-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Lina\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/HVY_1569-copy-66x66.jpg 66w, https:\/\/www.munchkinfun.com\/miami\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2015\/01\/HVY_1569-copy-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Lina Acosta Sandaal, MA, program director of The Nest in Miami, is an expert in child and adolescent development and infant and early childhood mental health, having worked and trained at Vista Del Mar, Yale\u2019s Minding the Baby, National Child Traumatic Stress Network, and Child Trauma Research Program.<br \/>\n<\/em><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Lina Acosta Sandaal, MA \u2013 owner\/founder of The Nest, a parenting center founded on the idea that with the right information parents always make the right choices for their children. 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